The World You Grew Up in No Longer Exists
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Intro
Isn’t it weird how much the world has changed,but we keep getting the same old advice.To nobody’s surprise, none of this old advice seems to hold up.So,I want to look at a few popular, solutions given to men nowadays and see how it is statements, hold up.
In this context, “hold up” means to remain valid, effective, true, or accurate over time.
When someone says “none of this old advice seems to hold up,” it means that the old advice is no longer useful, accurate, or applicable to current circumstances.
Equality
[music] >> So,the main thing that I notice nowadays is that a lot of men compare themselves, to women,and this is under the guise of equality.I notice this quite a lot in college.So, I’m almost done with college now,and people are starting to get into the job market.And to nobody’s surprise, all the big offices all universally hiring women,but the vast majority of men are getting rejected.I also actually got rejected by two offices.The difference is that I know it’s not my fault, whereas a lot of other guys,they’re so Disney-brained, right?They’ve been so raised with this mindset of all I’m equal to a woman.So, when they see a woman basically surpass them,they get very annoyed, jealous even.But, a lot of these men don’t realize that we’re not the same.Nothing’s equal.And I’m not talking about this scope of all men are so much stronger.Men have built civilization.Okay, that’s cool and all,but I’m talking about the modern day.I’m talking about now.
And right now, women have never been more privileged ever.So, honestly,you know, I can start talking about the dating market,how, you know,so many men just can’t get anything.And again, right?Which is like with the college example I gave earlier, they look at women,and women have essentially infinite options.And so, they get upset,jealous, mad,whatever it is.To me,the funniest thing of all of this is how much men have to do, just to get hookups.Not relationships, not anything,just to get hookups.Whereas women can just exist essentially, and they can get way more.You know,something I’ve already mentioned in the past that looksmaxing will not guarantee, anything.The perfect example of that has been recently Cletus Fickle, you know,he’s the face of looksmaxing.He apparently put in all the effort to looksmax to become a Chad,and look where it got him.>> So,someone just asked me if I feel bad, for posting Cloud’s girl and possibly ending the relationship.Look,you know how many times.
this guy has gone up to a couple and taken the girl away from the guy?>> It’s an evil world we live in.>> It’s like I already said, man,looksmaxing won’t guarantee you anything.I’ve already said this in past videos.The only thing it’s going to get you are hookups, and that’s it.Relationships are there’s a societal problem.You can’t do anything about it as an individual.Uh another interesting point is that this girlfriend has a really nice necklace.I’m a big fan of that art style.Definitely would buy one for my future wife.>> [laughter], >> The other thing is that women also have these female-only uh things.So,one thing that I noticed in my college is that there are these female-only, events,right?So, many big law offices,you know, they come around,and there’s this event to network.And you’re going to think as a guy, “Oh,finally, you know,I can network.” Wrong.The event is female-only.Like, how is this even fair?Just think about that like in a nutshell.It’s already hard getting a job.
Everyone and their mom tells you, “Oh,you need to network, bro.You need to know people.” And then finally, you get an event at your school,and it’s female-only.Or how about the female-only sports, you know,there’s plenty of those, which an example of is the F1 Academy.And I know you might say, “Oh,but isn’t Formula 1 male-only or MotoGP, or these other sports male-only?” They’re actually not.If you look at the rules of those sports, they’re not male-only.It’s just that the men are significantly better.So, that’s why you basically only see men.But another example of this are gyms.You already know what it is.There are female-only gyms.You know,something that I started looking into a while ago was male-only, gyms because I don’t like these gyms,man,where I’m sitting there with these, women who are dressed in these tight, suits and they’re filming themselves for their Instagram, or whatever it is.It’s just weird.Like, I don’t want to be part of your shot,you know, when I’m just trying to work out.
So, I started looking to male-only gyms.And funnily enough,I actually found, like an article about a male-only gym that somebody started for another reason,right?He started it to protect men from lust, which I think that’s a valid argument.If you have healthy levels of testosterone,you’re going to look at the women in your gym, right?When when they’re dressed in those type of clothing.But to nobody’s surprise, this male-only gym got universally mocked.You know, everybody’s calling this guy gay.Everybody is just throwing all these insults, at them and I don’t know what else to add here,right?I’m pretty sure we already know we live in a female world now, you know,the quote is the future is female or something like that.And unfortunately, we live in that future right now.There is no single direction you can look at and see male privilege.Like, genuinely.Just point me to one direction and tell me there’s male privilege.You can’t.They have the upper hand in the dating market.
They have the upper hand in the job market because, women have an in-group preference of five times the amount that men do.And you know why this matters?It’s because the HR lady you’re speaking to is a woman.So when she interviews another woman,the chance of her hiring that other woman are significantly higher than yours.This is also why you’ll see that, women are more in the job market, these days than men.Like it doesn’t matter.Like genuinely it’s It’s gotten so absurd, that it doesn’t matter where you look at.They just They just won, man.Like it It is what it is, you know?They make more money.They have lower rates of addiction and you know all the other bad stuff.There are basically no man spaces.Even Boy Scouts aren’t even male only,which to me is weird cuz it’s called Boy Scouts.Marriage is optional.Divorce is no fault.The vast majority of custody battles are actually won by them.They will not get drafted that even though they LARP as being in the military,
they won’t get drafted when actual war happens,just like it happened in Ukraine.They will not get drafted, but you know,we will.Meanwhile, they can still LARP in their military suits,act like they’re soldiers.And yeah, it’s just It is what it is,you know?We’re living in the female future.I guess that’s the That’s the best way to describe it.
Personality
When it comes to attraction, men don’t care about your job,men don’t care about your career, and men do not care about your ambition.What guys care about the most, as everybody knows,is looks.Guys care about looks the most.>> So what’s going to win?Looks versus personality.Let’s go and get some answers.Looks or personality?>> Personality.>> Definitely personality.>> It’s got to be personality every single time.>> Definitely personality.>> Personality.>> Personality.>> And tonight I’ve got some really good news because the majority, of our ladies actually said that they all prefer personality, over looks.>> So,another lie that, we’ve been told a lot growing up is that looks matter way more for women.And we were told from childhood, that women are more pressured to look good because,after all, why else is the makeup industry a billion-dollar industry?You know, why else do women buy 50 skin-care products to put on their faces?It It has to be this societal pressure.
It has to be this outside world.While there is some level of truth to this,and that is that female SMV is largely dictated by her looks,while for men it is a combination of looks and status.And if you look at the stats here, so for men,71%, of people agreed that that’s important for them to be able to financially, support, a family,so for them to be a beta boxer.For women, this is only 25% according to men.So,only 1/4 of men thinks it’s important for a woman to have some type of status.Whereas for men, it’s literally almost triple the amount.This means that when a woman is born ugly,she is kind of cooked in the sense that she can’t really increase her SMV by,you know, becoming a lawyer,doctor, or whatever it is.Like,the vast majority of guys would choose the Stacy barber, over the five out of 10 Becky lawyer.So, looks don’t matter as much for women.However, it matters far more for men,and there are also studies that actually prove this.But, before I actually get into the study,
I just want to point out how, when you look at a guy,you you just know if he’s a virgin, right?You know what I’m talking about.When you look at a guy, you can tell if he’s getting girls or not.You can’t really do that with women.You can look at a Stacy and you can also look at a sub five.And they’re both still getting stuff.In fact,you don’t even know who’s the one that is like getting passed around the most.Now, from my knowledge in college at least,the women that get passed around the most are typically the unattractive ones.But, there was also a study done on this what I’m talking about in 2017.In this study,pictures of both male and female subjects are rated by the opposite sex,and they were judged on an attractiveness scale.Now, in men,facial attractiveness significantly predicted the number of sexual partners.More attractive men reported roughly 1.7, times additional partners per attractiveness point.However, in women,
attractiveness had basically no effect on their number of uh partners,which is basically what I already said earlier, right?I didn’t even need this study to notice.Like, we already know this.You can’t really judge her body count by just looking whereas you can with men.When you see a guy walking around, you can just tell if he’s full of it,right?Cuz I know obviously every guy is going to say he’s not a virgin,but we know that the vast majority of Gen Z guys aren’t getting anything.And so, yeah,when you look at a guy, it’s very easy to see that,whereas with women, it doesn’t.And so, while yes,it sucks that, you know,when you’re born as a woman, you can’t really like level up,you know, your status doesn’t matter.The thing is, it doesn’t really matter.Like, the base level is way higher than it is for men.Like, the base level of women is significantly higher than it is for men.This is because below average men aren’t even seen as humans,
whereas a woman can genuinely be a grandma, she can genuinely be 60,70, and she’ll still get way more DMs than any man.>> I I’ve opened a profile on Tinder, and I’ve named her Jane,and she’s 60 years old.If you go along, I’ve got 99 matches plus.It doesn’t even register any Like Like these are the guys.Like It’s endless.Like super likes.
Women
All right.So,the next one is that there’s this idea, that women are on average more attractive than men.>> But, take a look at this graph.The first dot is women rating women.The second is women rating men.The third is men rating women.And the fourth is men rating men.You can clearly see that men and women both agree women look better.>> And to that, I say that men are actually the beautiful gender,not women.And the reason why this is true is because men have to hit so many marks, to be attractive.Like just think about it for a second, right?Women they just need to put down the burger.Just being very realistic here, right?Maybe a rhinoplasty too, maybe.But, other than that,yeah, they just need to put down the burger,and that’s basically it.Okay, I know this sounds very exaggerated,so let me just explain this.In order for a man to be attractive, he needs to hit several points.He needs to have several marks.He needs to be tall.He needs to have a sharp jawline, full head of hair,
good eye area, thick brows,deep voice, V-taper body.Like there’s so many things a man needs.And this thing is called the dimorphism,which is a thing many men nowadays lack due to their lack of testosterone, and other environmental issues.Now, if a man misses only one of these marks,he is basically not invisible, but he’s going to struggle significantly harder.>> All right, so men need to hit a lot of these marks.So, what do women need to hit in order to be attractive?For them, they need to have a small nose and they need to be not obese.And that’s literally it.And the reason this bar is so low is because of two things.First of all, makeup.Makeup is literal magic.Like it can literally transform you from one face into another.And I’m actually kind of surprised, that the looks maxing community hasn’t like really caught up with it completely.Makeup is very effective.Like I know Clif Tucker has promoted it a little bit, but yeah,it’s a very effective.
tool that I’ve been wanting to look into more because yeah,it’s literal magic.But the second reason why the bar is also low for women is because of the giant, amount of simps.>> You can look me dead in my eyes.If you say do it, I would >> Okay,okay, okay.You’re saying this and now I’m going to like test it.>> Okay.What do we Just give me like one >> Would you bark for me?>> I I I I I I I >> [laughter] >> Arf.Good boy.I get Yeah, you know >> And so because of these two reasons,the bar is so low for a woman.The only thing she needs to do is yeah, just you know,not eat McDonald’s every single day.And then also have a smaller nose.And if she fits those two, then she gets the following results.>> How are you doing today?I guess not good.You’re so beautiful.Have a good day.Hey, what’s up,girl?How you doing?Somebody’s acknowledging you.She said thank you.>> [laughter] >> Now,hopefully I don’t need to explain to you that some, Leon Kennedy looking guy mogs the average Becky,
but that’s what it takes for a man to get the same amount of attention.The guy needs to look like a real life video game character, in order for him to get the same amount of attention.And the thing is this is nothing really new this concept that I’m talking about.The vast majority of animals share the same principle.It’s the male animals that are I guess you could say the beautiful ones.It doesn’t matter if you look at lions, gorillas,peacocks, it doesn’t matter.You can look anywhere in nature, and one thing you’ll always see, is that the men have to mog and, because they have to mog,the men are the better looking ones.So this idea, that women on average, are better looking like this, is something that you’ll actually, see quite a lot on social media,you know, on Reddit,wherever.It’s just complete [ __ ] Like when you compare, the average man to the average woman,the man has to look significantly better to get her and it’s just the way it is.
Comparison
Oh, but you are wrong.The only reason you could disagree, is because you are losing so badly you cannot see it.>> Another popular quote is that comparison is the thief of joy.So this basically means that we should not compare ourselves, to other people because if we do,we will be unhappy.And I’ve never heard of a more [ __ ] quote than this.The only time you should never, compare yourself to others is, when you’re at the bottom, because when you’re at the bottom,you kind of know that you’re like a complete ass.And so at that point it’s better to just focus on yourself, but you know,from what I remember at least once I got into college,it was actually quite important for me to compare myself to my peers.And the reason is how else am I going to measure how good I’m doing?You can’t measure yourself in a vacuum.Like you need other people to compare yourself to.Now there is this big brain rot nowadays, where people are constantly doom scrolling, and they’re seeing these 20-year-old, millionaires,
and yeah, sure,you know, that hurts your mental health.But,I feel like that’s beside the point because, we all know this point social media is just bad for our brains.We all know that, you know,you were never meant to compare yourself to the son of some billionaire, who lives across the planet.None of that matters.Like, you should never compare yourself to those people.We all on a subconscious level know this.But, in response,there’s this soft Disney brain, advice given that all of a sudden we should not compare ourselves to anyone,which that just completely goes against our nature.Like, you automatically compare yourself to other people.You do it whether you like it or not.And that’s a good thing.Like, you should compare yourself to others.Competition,so comparing yourself to others literally gives you the measure, to see, you know,are you improving at a steady pace.
Modern dating is natural
Life and dating largely for men,there’s an uncomfortable reality, that if you aren’t blessed with the right physical attractiveness,status, or money,if you don’t have the right prerequisite, you’re basically doomed.You’re a genetic dead end.Each >> If we’re looking at a species, let’s look at deer.What is natural?Is that one buck inseminates 50 doe, and he competes with all the other deer.And the reason for that is because then it actually allows the, quote,best genes to proliferate.Now, best is determined by what actually continues on.>> All right.So, the next point is that modern dating is natural,and this has gotten more and more popular,and this is a justification for why dating market is so cooked nowadays.People are trying to cope with how cooked things are by saying in nature,the top always takes everything.The problem with this statement is that we’re humans.We literally found a solution to this problem.And the solution to this problem was monogamy, enforced by religion.
So, there genuinely used to be someone for everyone.I mean, maybe if you were like a sub three or sub two,then it was over.But, that’s like the bottom 10% of men.Around the ’50s and the 60s,is when our grandfathers, just collectively decided to let go of thousands of years of tradition, all in the name of,you know, freedom.And because of that,we are right now basically living in the animal kingdom, where the top guy takes everything.The reason a lot of people call us natural, is that there’s a study saying that like 40%, of men used to reproduce,and the vast majority of men never reproduced back in the day.But there’s a lot of issues with this article.There’s a lot of issues with this whole natural cope in general.So, the first one is that excessive men in the past used to go to war.And going to war isn’t an option anymore.Back when I was quite depressed before I entered college,I didn’t really know what to do with my life.
And one of the things I was considering was joining the army because after all,the army gives you purpose.It gives you a sense of brotherhood.And realistically, like a lot of guys do need those things.But the problem is,I literally can’t, go, and fight for, the country that I live in because the country that I live in does not like me.I don’t own any land here.The opposite gender’s constantly mocking me.So, why would I fight for us?Like it makes no sense.Just think about it for a second.Why would you fight for a country that constantly hates you,where you own no land, where the opposite gender’s constantly mocking you?Like why would you even go to war?You know, there is a stupid meme a while ago of all men used to go to war.And it’s like, yeah,because back in the day men used to be, you know,loved by their country.They had a wife.They had children.They had their own house, their own,you know, piece of land that they owned.Uh the government supported them.
But now it is the complete opposite, you know,where the government basically does not like you at all.And it’s gone to a point where it’s like, okay,then why would I even fight for you?And it’s actually even worse than that because of this whole sexual revolution,and you know, women are free to do what they want.Even if you survive, right?Let’s say even if you get deployed to a war, even if you survive,there was actually a study done on this for Americans, who went to Iraq and Afghanistan,like one in five of their women just cheated on them.So, there’s a 20% chance of her just cheating on you.>> Okay,so my my girlfriend has decided to play behind my back and, talk to other guys while I’m gone.I’ve been gone for about a month over here in training for the Marines.And she thinks it’s okay to play behind me.Hi.So, you want to play this game?You didn’t think it was me that was calling, did you?Oh, [ __ ] What’s going on?Whatever.There’s more fish in the sea.
You know, imagine you’re risking your entire life for your country,for your women, and you come back home just to realize she cheated on you.And mind you, these are the women who got caught,right?Cuz we know a lot of them cheat and they never got caught.So, you still want to point that out.Another point that they never consider is IQ.So,the argument of these natural co-pers is that the 6’4”, guy will beat the 5’7” guy in nature because if he’s 6’4”,he has more reach and he has this and he has that.And it’s like, are we just forgetting about how evolution works?Like, are we just choosing to,you know,we pick and choose our arguments, like like they would just forget that in the end they’re tall that take a wrist,brow ridges, that warrior skulls,you know, they mugged us,as they say.And yet, the species we evolved from completely destroyed them.Why?Because the Homo sapiens completely IQ mugged them to death.Like, instead of fighting with their hands like animals,
they just made spears or bows and they used weapons instead of their hands.And it’s the same thing nowadays.Somebody with high IQ can always find a way to use his environment, to invent some type of tool to use that’s,you know, in his advantage compared to the dumb Chad.And people keep coming up with these stupid arguments, right?Like oh, the guy with a sharp jawline like if he gets attacked by an animal,he can, he can survive, the claw or some stupid, stuff like >> How does sharper facial features make you a better hunter?Well,if you think about the things, that would kill you if you were, a hunter in prehistoric, mankind,you were probably routinely attacked by things with claws and teeth, right?Like that’s kind of the thing that’s going to get you.If you think about like a saber-tooth tiger,imagine like a claw going up against your face, right?If you think about the way a masculine skull is shaped,it’s kind of designed to like protect your eyes and neck from a claw attack.
The amount of cope people are coming up with to justify, this insane dating market is actually insane.Like dude, it’s not that deep,okay?The reason women are choosing these guys cuz they’re better looking.Like that’s it.There is nothing about nature.It’s nothing about this thick brow ridge will save him from the sun.Like it doesn’t have to do with any of those features.Like you guys don’t understand how much IQ matters when it’s about dominating,you know, other people.However, when it comes to attraction,IQ is essentially meaningless.Like nobody cares about IQ when we’re talking about just, you know,attracting women.And I guess the final counter-argument to all these nature copers is that,you know, in nature all sorts of funny things happen.One of those funny things is this one fruit.I’m not going to explain this any further.You know what I’m talking about, but this happens in nature.And yeah, for some reason nobody would says that oh,natural is good.
Like okay, then why is this not happening?Isn’t that a good thing either?If everything that’s natural is good, then we should also endorse, this one thing.
Loneliness
It’s part of life.Like I, you know,I’m also not, involved with people and I don’t like I don’t think that there’s, much wrong with me,but it’s just some people go through phases of life where they’re not, so involved in romance and that’s not a bad thing because it’s not, that’s not the point of life.>> And the final cope that I want to destroy is that, you know,people are saying more and more that living alone is okay, and it’s normal to just go home to your empty apartment, and watch your football on TV,go to bed, go back to work,you know, have this golem lifestyle.People are saying more and more how this is okay and you know,this is just another giant cope, right?It’s about these men who are, sent their own way and they’re, trying to cope saying that this, is normal.The thing is you don’t even have to look at a study, to know that humans are social creatures.We know they are.Like it’s this basic knowledge, and because there is this large amount of men who are lonely,
there is currently this male loneliness epidemic.And the answer to this male loneliness epidemic is to just get hobbies, or to just play video games and it’s just that’s just not the answer.Like just think about this for one second, all right?If I lock you in a room with no food and you start, screaming cuz you’re getting hungry,then everyone would say that is completely normal because, obviously you’re getting hungry.You need food to survive.But if I lock you up in a room and instead of giving you no food,now I give you zero human connection.People going to start coping, you know,they’re going to throw all these terms on you.Oh, he’s just depressed.Oh, he has anxiety.He has a personality disorder.Like they’re going to throw all these psychological arguments onto you.Which, the only reason they do is because people are trying to cope with the loneliness, rather than addressing the actual problem.And it’s gotten actually even worse than that, right?There’s these people online you’ll see that oh,
you don’t need external validation.Needing connection, that’s neediness.You know, you should just be fine living by yourself.You know, you should just be fine growing up never hugging a woman,never kissing.That’s completely normal, guys.Don’t worry about it.Oh, you’re 40-year-old virgin?Don’t worry about it.That’s completely normal.Oh, you’re going to die alone with no children,with nothing left on this planet to leave something to?That’s completely normal, guys.Don’t worry about it.It’s completely normal.You see how absurd this sounds because that’s how modern people are talking.And the solutions are even worse, you know.Oh, you have issues?Go to therapy, bro.Just go pay someone $100, so he can listen to you for an hour and he gives you some normie advice.Touch grass, you know.>> Pay you to listen to my problems?I’m rich.I’m miserable.Half the time my kids can’t stand me.The other half my wife is cheating on me.I’m pretty average for this town, really.Wait a minute.That’s the shot.
I think I’m having a breakthrough here, doctor.This I think No, no,I know.I’m just terrified that I’m going to >> Sure you are,but that’s really all we have time for.>> [sighs] >> Or how about exercise, which is literally 1 hour,at best 2 hours a day.So that still means you have the rest of the day up to yourself.The rest of the day you’re still lonely.You still have all these negative thoughts, but no,exercise will save you.Or even worse, you know,this is what I had self-improvement.What’s the whole meditation cope?Where you just sit alone in your room for 10,20 minutes and you’re breathing in and out and, you know,you just need to be present, bro.Just Just be present, bro.Just acknowledge that you have zero friends, that you have no girlfriend.Just Just be present about it.Like all of this is busy work to distract, you from noticing that you’re living in a social desert.And anyone, you know,like me who points out that maybe it’s not an individual issue.Maybe it’s a societal issue.
You know, I I get called all these terms,right?All you have to do is just read my comments.Like anytime one of my videos gets a decent amount of views and the normies, flood in there,I get called all these names and it’s my fault, you know,I’m the guy who made up all these issues, because that’s why my channel’s gotten this attraction,right?Because I’m the only [ __ ] guy on this planet who has all these problems,right?Makes total sense.>> A guy can be greasy, dusty,musty, smelly,have bad breath and, he will he can pull he can pull so much more than you think he can.And I know this for a fact because I have seen so many people that I personally.
Conclusion
The whole thing is just massive gaslighting, if you think about it where we’ve normalized mass scale human suffering, as just background, noise.Anyone who talks about it is treated as a problem.You know,I genuinely, don’t even know what to say about, this last one cuz this one actually, pisses me off so much to the, point where I can’t even discuss, stuff like basic stuff anymore.You know, like people normies discuss,“Oh,my favorite superhero, is this or my favorite show is this.” Or I would bet that Superman, would beat Batman or some irrelevant consumerism, issue.I can’t even take this seriously anymore because it’s like there’s this massive, like massive [clears throat] issue going on and nobody’s talking about it.And you know, you can see this anywhere,right?You can look at the birth rates,about the men who are just checking out of society.And you know, you can read these articles.You can watch videos about it on my channel or Rehab or whoever.But you know, when you go outside,
nobody’s talking about it.It is so absurd.It is so weird.Like you can literally go to your college,you look around the room and you’ll see that the majority, of guys aren’t getting anything.The majority of those guys, they don’t have a girlfriend.Their so-called friends, you know,they’re only friends with those guys cuz they go to the same school or whatever.So they don’t really have like a support network, and nobody’s talking about this.This is actually freaking me out.This stuff is very weird.But, anyway,that’s the video.I could make another one of these.There’s so many of these like popular statements that are just completely, outdated,completely wrong.But, yeah,anyway, that’s the video.If you enjoyed it, make sure to give it a like and a comment and yeah,that’s the video.