to consider an idea or a plan, but not very seriously and not for a long time 不太认真地考虑；把…当儿戏 SYN flirt with
I did briefly toy with the idea of living in France.
我确实闪过定居法国的念头。
to play with sth and move it around carelessly or without thinking 玩耍；戏弄；摆弄
He kept toying nervously with his pen.
他一直精神紧张地摆弄着钢笔。
She hardly ate a thing, just toyed with a piece of cheese on her plate.
她几乎没吃一点东西，只是拨弄着碟子里的一块奶酪